Girls and kitchen sets

My daughters are so obsessed with the kitchens toys , poor my lil ones , they don’t know one day , you will sort hating them , because thats going to be an integral part of your life, sometimes , it will be an important factor to decide your future life. Heard many telling that if a girl doesn’t know any household, their life is gone be miserable. 

If thats the girls future deciding factor then ,whats the factor that decides a man’s future. Men  come to see a girl to their house and they judge and decide ,if she is fit for their life, so who decides for a woman. How she knows what are the things she need to keep in mind. 

Luckily things are changing , but there are many men in our society who think cooking and household works fall into women’s basic identity. Totally a weird way of judging women. And yes there are many men , who helps their better half in everything , thats the perfect way.  There is no harm in wishing for the same .

Why can’t girls play with other toys ,seriously why only the dirty pink color girls like, why can’t it be blue. Oh seriously , I don’t know , why all these distinction. Whenever its girls birthday , we get gifts like  a doll, a doll house ,a kitchen set, and all those ,which   might be future assets  for her, seems we are giving a practice for her future. 

And for poor lil boys, its always cars cars and cars , seems they are gone be drivers ( just joking) . God knows who started with these discrimination (as I say) . I wish I could teach my kids to live like how they want , and not to abide the rules that the idiots in the society are putting up, rules are to be broken, but am scared the ‘karma officials’ , who preach of the basic society law will harm them , so I just leave it to GOD who knows whats right and wrong better than me. 

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Why celebrate special occassions

Birthdays, anniversaries , every occasion is a special one in anyones life, Its just that everyone is so busy to even remember it , or celebrate it, or make it spell for someone. 

Sometimes , even if we don’t celebrate ,just even a simple wish is enough to make someone feel special. Nowadays , its easy .. you don’t have to take the  pain of remembering the birthdays too ,, because Facebook does and we just have to wish everyone mechanically, even I have done it many times , but later I realised , even others might be doing the same to me, so now I feel genuinely to wish someone from my heart and not just a simple copy paste message. 

I feel so happy when someone wishes me on my bday or any occasion social in my life, , I know its the same way for others too, but sometimes, we are too busy that , we tend to forget such simple things in life. Any celebration need not be a grand one, even a special gesture is enough for someone to be happy . Expensive gift are not requires, branded gifts are not required. , may be just a lil help in their day to day work , or a smile, or showing affection is enough to make someone happy.

Many couples , celebrate their first anniversaries ,but after that, they forget , or doesn’t even bother to wish each other , or do anything special for each other. Sometimes, a wife needs a special attention, it makes not only her feel good but her family too , her parents will feel ,proud to have a good son-in-law who takes care of their lovely daughter . And when wife does something for the husband , he and his family feel good the same way.

So now on, lets all make an effort in making someone feel special.