“There is no one else who can help you other than yourself”
A quote somewhere I read keeps me motivated and high. To all those moms, who cry for care, attention and love . I guess the best way to get out of all these is to keep yourself busier but not exhausted.
Parenting is never easy, never approach the bumpy road assuming ,you won’t have pitfalls. It is quite normal for you as a mom to be imperfect. Imperfections make us stronger ,sharper and better. As we learn through every step in the life, we are not in downfall, we are creating a shelter for our own loved ones.
It is easy to criticize someone for their faults, it is not easy to rise out of criticism. So ignore the bad commenting you get on your parenting . As for me, every parent does their best to their kids, to make them unique.
When I was in my first parenthood season which is still ongoing , I encountered lots of problems. I remember the days I struggled with holding my baby properly. It is quite normal, handling a small life inside you and then in your hands is extremely tough.
I had struggled to help her walking , talking , playing , since I was not sure what I was supposed to do. I had to swim through judgments, hardly a few appreciations and lots of complaints. Still, motherhood is unique, which most of them don’t account for.
Sta calm!! Chill
You are the best for your child. None can replace a mom’s love and dad’s care in a child’s life.