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Do you know how it is to be all left alone when you have all your loved ones near you and you are surrounded by everything you need ,still you feel empty ?

The toughest emotion to deal with is

how worthy are you at times? or maybe to yourself?

The frustration of feeling lost and empty is quite painful ,it is like you are eaten up slowly and steadily and one day you just blow out even with the trigger of a small prick. Others might not know what exactly you might be going through , but your heart is rusted and the only shiny portion of the rust can be seen. To the outer world you are a completely devoted person ,but inside you have crushed your dreams, wishes, and many more unspoken words.

A true dilemma that keeps creeping into one’s mind ,its is hard to get out of it. These emotions are not truly justifiable to many , it is just that you are stressed and need love and attention.

There are many proven methods that help , but patience is the key to it.

The best medicine for all your illness, your depressions and the mind games that keeps creeping your heart is to relax and enjoy the moment.

Be happy with what you are; may be fat, dark, fair, beautiful, intelligent , scared, confident or anything in the whole world . You are made like that for a reason ,everyone is special to someone always and forever. To realize that ,it takes ages.

But ones you realize, then it is your world.

Never be let down with anyone’s words and deed, no one can hurt you other than you yourself.

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Working from home- not a cake walk

Everybody thinks that working from home would be more comfortable and easier to handle your job and home at the same time.

Is it so?

How many of you agree with the thought of it?

How well have you managed work and home?

Is it comfortable or double trouble?

I guess for there pros and cons for the same .

For me, the option of working at home is a soothing thought but yet we have to deal with a lot of pressure.At times the scale doesn’t balance well. Handling a baby, a school going kid and the work plus all the normal chores of the house was not an easy thing.

In the initial times , I wondered how would I swim through this strong current without loosing my mind and patience( which was indeed quite less) . It took me some time to equip to the idea of working because of the long gap. Yet the work was satisfactory and I still enjoy it the same way as I started .

The best part of it have I learned a different portion of me, which was never known to me.

I was a planner – I planned everything quite well ahead to meet the deadlines.

I was quite a multitasked- As every other woman I learned to hold a kid on my lap and do my work and teach my Lil school goer too.

I am an early starter- I guess ,being in school was the last time I had woken up earlier that after n number of kicks from my home. Now atlas two alarms are enough for me.

I guess much more will be added to my list of making a new me out of all these.

The best part is, now am earning and I can still be with my kids. It is not easy.

But yet, If it was easy ,I would have run away from it long ago. With toughness comes the enthusiasm to do and accomplish things .

Compete to yourself

Am not a person who loves competition. I always admire who are better than me and there are many who are profoundly better than what I am. I learn from them , not to be like them, just trying to imply it in my own way.

During my school days, the biggest trouble for me was to write down the answer in the same way in the textbook. Totally impossible it was. I just wanted to be out of school and do something. The only thought that was pondering my mind was just to be someone important and accomplish what I think was impossible for me.

Everyone thought I was a lazy person, quite underestimated me, but that was my inspiration to my focus. I wanted to improvise what I was and in every step am doing it. I hated criticism always , but then later realized that was the burning fire that was making me run towards my goal.

Learn every day from anyone you see around you, might be a common man on the street or a someone who pass by while you cross the road. Anyone can bring in the motivation as simple as the tiniest ant.

Smile and wake up, win over your alarm and grab the tiniest opportunities that you can find around you. Network and be a part of things you always dreamt of doing. WE may not know opportunity comes in which way.

I even tell my kids never to be someone else , imitating someone is not the right way to be what you want. I see parents and grandparents comparing kids from the very minute they are born complaining about things not at all controllable by us – oh the baby is black, the kid is small, the kid is big, the baby doesn’t talk, the kid talks more , blah blah and much more.

I wonder what benefit do they get from all these. Hope people change their attitude for the best. Teach your kids to be good not to compete and win over from what they were the day before rather than teaching them to be someone else. Let them pursue what they want rather than be guided to do what we want them to do.

Love yourself

The best therapy to get rid of all the negative feelings that keep clouding your positive mind is loving yourself. At times self-obsession is the best medicine to overcome the illness of your mind.

When you love yourself , you start feeling confident on whatever you do, in a way that positivity reflects in all the relations too. No one is perfect in the world, perfection is attained with confidence and handwork.

At times when am feeling low , even the big from my daughters making me feel special, worthy in their life ,benefits me to revive from problems. The way my girls hold me tight and kiss me lovingly makes me happy and full of joy. I share my happiness and joy with my loved ones and keep them happier too.

If you stay happy , you keep everyone happy. At a time the magic wand is in someone’s hand for whom your heart melts for. At times the magician doesn’t know the worth of their magic and stay away from doing it. If you are the reason for someone’s smile be that forever .

To keep others happy ,first you have to be happier, that is the magic of selfless love. Haven’t you noticed that when you baby smiles you automatically cannot stop yourself from smiling? Happiness is contagious. Enjoy and live your life with the joy of being yourself. No one can love you more than you yourself.

Never give up on heartbreaks.If you stop being passionate about life , you cannot pass through your obstacles.Depressions, worry, stress everything comes to you when you forget to pamper yourself.

Love and spread love.

Travel diary

A familiar route to our home and back to our native which we usually take up caught my attention recently. The road is very clear , the route is regular yet at times nature plays a wonderful magic that the beauty is at times never faded away and at times keeps floating right in front of our eyes.

As we pass by the villages and towns en route to Cochin, I was browsing through a book and in between gazing out the window of the speeding car. Usually, in a hurry and at a time due to tiredness, I used to doze off rather than gazing out. I realized I missed a few beautiful parts of the route. At times even spotted peacocks ,somewhere , I guess I don’t know the name of the place.

The farm lands in the villages encapsulated by the rocky terrains which are almost covered in bushes which are hardly green brightened by the sunlight in the early morning are truly engaging. I keep gazing on the roads and found a board where it was written to drive safe, elephants crossing. I kept gazing up the majestic hill locks which were covered in greenery in an eagerness to spot an elephant. Of course, I cannot. !! Just trying with luck.

Finally, as we were approaching the fantastic Kerala , nature changed and beauty was spellbinding. The vet stretch of the Western Ghats that makes us feel like an ant in front of them gigantic walls of mountains , yet beautiful. The grass is green, the trees are greener and luscious . The sky is perfectly blue.

I love my place. Nothing can beat the beauty of our own place.

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