Kids are Incredible!!!

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When Nandu was around 1.5 years , I noticed her running to the waste bin , picking something from the floor , I ran to her thinking that she must be going to throw something important.But when I checked what is in her hand I noticed that it was some bit of waste paper , I was surprised and happy .

I wondered from where she got to know that you have to drop the waste in the waste bag , when I never thought to teach her.Its really surprising how kids observe all these and learn from us. I have seen her doing many things as such , which I never taught her.

As a parent now its our duty to teach them and guide them right , whether its a boy or a girl. I learned that there is no point in shouting at them, if we do , they will just do the same thing to us. Funny isn’t it. But  Yes , that the truth. 

Other day , when we went shopping , she cried a lot for chocolates , as all other kids, I told her angrily , that am not going to buy any. She cried all the way back home . What was the outcome , nothing , just she cried , i lost my temper and  I was exhausted .But after that , the next day , when she was hurrying up to go out with her dad , out for shopping , we told her , that she should not cry for chocolates and if she does , he will not be taking her for shopping .

To our surprise , she said “yes , no chocolates” . I though she said it casually , but when they returned from shopping , her dad told  me , she was nice and didn’t ask for chocolate at all. I was happy and delighted and I hugged her. After that , I started to give her chocolates  without even her asking for it.

Its true that patience and love pays.

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Friendship

 

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I feel lucky to have blessed with many good friends in life and even bad friends who taught me a lot  to value my best friends. 

Its not a surprising thing , that bad friends teach us many little things. They show us what real life is . They bring with them lot many qualities like , cheating , unfaithfulness and ungrateful. I am sure pretty many of them had experienced a great deal of such kind of people. Such friends just utilize the time they spend with people keeping just one thing in mind , that there good and nothing more.

If we don’t have bad experiences in life, how do we appreciate the little good experiences we come across. Thats how we start valuing the real friends . They experience everything with us and still be with us , that the true friends.

True friends never expect anything from us , just appreciate them and treat them well , they will be forever yours.It grows with mutual understanding , compassion and emotional attachments. As I said I have been blessed with such lovely friends in my life , of them a few I cherish in my mind. They will be forever with me , even if I do not call them daily, talk to them daily ,mail them or call them on special occasions.

I need not tell my friend , if am sad, they know through the words I type , or speak ,even if they don’t see me. I always want to be a good friend for anyone who counts on me. I had best set of friends when I was in school  , college and even while working. I cherish every memory with them.

Good friends are hard to find and bad friends really help to find them easily. 🙂

Motherhood – a true blessing

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If I wanted to say about something that changed my life , the first things that comes to my mind is ‘motherhood’ .

Being a mother changes everything in a woman’s life. Thats when a girl starts to think about   loving, the true form of love. When she conceives a baby in her womb , she feels protective towards it. She doesn’t want anything to harm the life growing inside her. 

When she feels the fluttering of the baby moving around  inside her womb , she understands that she is not alone experiencing what she feels, the life inside her also feels the same emotions.Its so wonderful to feel a life inside and only a woman is blessed with it.

The whole 10 months journey is  like a long wait,struggling through many experiences just to see a new born life. But after the birth of the baby , we realize that , all those troubles we were going through was just nothing , it was like a preschool , preparing ourselves for a big job.

Earlier I used to loose my patience , i was short tempered , but now many things changed for me. Being a mother we learn a lot .Its a life of lessons .I can see why I was struggling a lot, I couldn’t eat anything properly, I couldn’t sleep , but it was all for my lil darling , just to make me more lovable to her.

I am proud to be a mother, at least I learned how to forgive and love  more. The joy of being  mother is a most deepest and the selfless love .

Nandoos X-mas at school

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It was Nandoos Christmas celebration at her school today . I told her all about Christmas yesterday night , about Santa coming to see kids at night and hiding their gifts under the Christmas tree on Christmas. 

Its her first Christmas with her friends and  teachers. When I reached the school , to my surprise it was the first time she never noticed me coming in . I was happy to see her play around with other kids . 

All kids were sitting in the middle of the room , the room had a good decoration and a small Christmas tree kept on a table , which was all decorated with shiny lights . All the kids were looking lovely with their name tagged crowns  with shiny papers stuck to it. Some kids were playing with the crown and some others were busy to receive their parents.

As soon as she got a second out her busy playing , she noticed me sitting there on a chair and came running and hugged me. And she told me ” mama , am going to sit there”  pointing towards her friends , and I looked at her and smiled and said “yes”.

She loves to be photographed , I took my mobile to take the snaps of all the lovely little kids around. Its so delightful  to capture such precious moments in life and cherish them forever. Those sweet little innocent kids , they are fun to be with. Some are shy , some loud ,some silent and all are so adorable  .

The teachers came in and sang songs with kids. I saw Nandoo was also singing along with them, it was so nice to listen . They sang ‘jingle bells’ , which is Nandoos favorite  of all. All kids were following their teacher’s actions and singing along.

Then came Santa Claus , a big tall man , just like in our story books with lovely beard , and all the kids were  happy to see him. He came in and gave away gifts to all kids present there.After that all kids got the privilege of taking individual snaps with Santa. 🙂

 

Rain

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When I see rain , the first thought that comes in my mind is the first day I met my best friend .

If she reads this am sure many memories will flash through her mind. When we met first in UC College Aluva , in Kerala during our interview in the college , it was raining. We both never realized at that time , we would be good friends later on. 

Again after that many times during the 3 years of my college life , every rainy season , we used to enjoy the rain. Our beautiful college had given has many memories  and we will never forget in our life. 

Whenever it was raining , we both used to make some excuses to go out intentionally to get drenched . It was fun. We used to take only one umbrella , and hold each other close. I was the one who never used to bring umbrella.

I remember once I saw my umbrella running away with the wind , while I was just sitting and looking at it wondering what will happen to it, if I don’t go and get it. For that I got enough scolding from home.

In Bangalore when I started to work , it was all different , the rain had a different smell , not like it was in college. In office we all used to love to have ice cream with gulab jamun , during rain. Ice cream do tastes better in rain :).

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