Happy Mother’s day

My ‘Mother’s day’ was totally a busy day, no rest , and totally busy. I am never pampered by my kids or hubby , may they don’t feel the importance of such a day in a year , and for my kids, they are too small to get to know what exactly is going on, so they just ignore.

My elder one comes to me, and hug me, whenever her fav cartoon channel , displays a motherly affectionate  picture , just to copy what exactly happening in her tv show, atlas thats what she does. Younger one ,who is too busy in doing mischieves , comes searching for me in kitchen and anywhere where ever am when ever  she has to do potty or go for toilets or is doing any kind of naughty things which I keep warning her not to do.

The sad part , I didn’t even with my mom on mother’s day , something I never forget. But on that day, I too forgot , because I was never wished for the same. In my home, its like , we have to ask someone to wish us , for birthdays , or any other special occasion, At least now things are on the changing track, getting improved. Thats a trade secret , emotional athyachar, it helps , for people who forget special days. (of course all females do  😉  )

In the end its just me , a very happy mom , because I have a loving family , kids who always need me and cling to me . Even if a day is missed to celebrate being mom , am celebrating every single day in my life , being so special in their lives and am happy ,whenever they call me for any help they require , and  the best moment is when i can hug them to sleep , all my tiredness vanishes off and I cuddle along with them on the bed , looking at their pretty cute faces and wondering what they might be dreaming off, when suddenly , its almost time to wake up. 

No one can replace mom in anyones life , so for every irreplaceable mom in everyones life  “A very Happy Mother’s day ” , especially to my mom , who gives me the strength to be a mom ,even though we fight a lot , still I cannot be without you.

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lil champ

As any other normal day , I put my lil champ in her bedroom to take a nap ,so that she can pull up more energy to run around the house and irritate her big sis with all her pranks , I was busy with my chit chats and my quality time with my lil one , in the living room . It’s always the same schedule for three of us , first i go put her to sleep and spend some time alone with my elder one and some face booking, and lil cartoon and movie watching. 

I was engrossed in my laptop , when I hear the anklets sound , a sound quite common in our house.We three have anklets and I love the jingling sounds of the anklets. First I looked at my elder one , but she was engrossed in her cartoons and did not move,then from  where is that sound , anyways not mine ( as am idle) , then suddenly I just turned around and what I saw was quite surprising for me.

The guess is right , my lil champ crawled all the way down her bed and walked to our living room. It was first time she did that , she is a champ in crawling down , sometimes while I be feeding her , she stops and crawl backwards down the bed and walks out of the room . 

It just reminded me the days when my elder one was busy learning all these.Its so beautiful ,to remember and cherish all these memories in my heart . I feel the happiness of my kids growing up, and creating memories all around me.Am delighted that am lucky to witness all the stages in their life and I would try to give them the best.

love u  my babies always and forever and ever……

Proud to have friends who are always reachable

I really felt happy and gratified, to know such good friends exist in my world. 

I do have good and best friends who always the best to me ,and few , who show attitudes , and don’t even care to talk. May be am interpreting them wrong , or they are shy . World is a mixture of such kinds  , and we are not the best to complain too , because knowingly we are too culprits.

I love people who just don’t show any kind of formalities and openly talk to us even though its being months or years.You ask something and they do their best for us. That kind of nature is appreciable  and found rare in this generation.

Its not us , but them , who are so thoughtful. Nowadays even people don’t bother to reply back , or call back , even if the messaging is free in whattsapp  or Facebook. Sometimes it better to sit back and just forget such people , and do not disturb them again.

Nowadays even older generation keep fighting as small nursery kids. They do such kiddy things , not talking to each other , not even sharing a gesture of happiness , seems all are in ego clashes . In every relation , the best is to your ego out.

I  wish , I just could do that , when someone approaches me too.Thankful to God for making such beautiful hearts.

reviving childhood

Today morning the first thing I wanted to do when I was done with my daily chores was to watch cartoon. 

Gone are those days , when I used to watch many cartoons. I had lots of favourites like gummy bear, jungle book , swat cats , dexter’s lab , and any more . Yea I was an addict. 

And what do i do now ??

As a mom restrict my kids watching cartoons .. no way … I too sit with them and watch.

I put lots of cartoons on tv and from the internet and let her watch. Like me is brother too , he is an addict too. He should be the best uncle , when both he and my daughter s sit in front of the television , or even on my phone , I see them engrossed in cartoons . 

Even he watches cartoons like peppa pig , ben and holly lil kingdom , which are some mine and nandoos fav too . I just make sure that she gets to watch the best cartoons and learn from them. 

Actually they are like stress busters.  Ofcourse am not stressed out , its just I love watching them with her , so I put some bahanas , who will not love to watch them , than the crappy serials and always-lying-news-poilitions  and total-money-waste-cricket matches on tv. 

Its just merely my choice , enjoy the bit of life ,in a world that not real .

Why do we stick on to bad memories ??

Am pretty sure , every single person on earth , has atlas one bad memory and we still cling on to it , as if its something good. why ?? I don’t know . Its basic human behaviour i guess, instead of reviving our good old memories , whenever we get a break, our idiotic heart, brings us the most painful memories into us.

My lovely lil girl too felt something painful , and that made me cry too . The very first time I was out of her sight for  long time , during my second ones delivery . It was long run from morn till evening , Even though I could hear her singing and telling stories outside the labor room , I was not supposed to move ,I felt like am caged and tangled up in chains , the only thought going on in my mind was just deliver and get out of the room asap, which was never in my hand. 

The moment I was out of the labor room , I just wanted to run out and hug my darling and share her the good news that she is being blessed with another lovely lil angel sister ,but my body was lagging behind my heart and , it wasn’t letting me move. The first thing I did was hug my daughter and give her lots of kisses , even before I lay on bed , and in that one day , I felt the pain I had never felt.

I realised quite late may be few months after all these , that my lovely lil gal , had gone through the same sorrow  that I had to, I didn’t know to smile and be happy or cry , it was a mixed feeling ,”she missed me “. She kept saying , that she waited waited for long ,,,to see me even asked the doc . I hugged her and placed a sweet kiss coated with my love . 

I know she is still scared  a lil , even though don’t know how to put it up to me, she keeps wandering around me and doesn’t go anywhere without me, I know she is clinging on to that day still , and am sure I can get rid of her thoughts ,, with lots of love and care.

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