Feeling low…what next

Some times we feel so low..we loose our self esteem.and our importance too and that’s when we need someone give us a shoulder to cry or an ear to hear you.

Everyone is soo busy to do so also..Time is precious but sometimes when we give a piece of our life a minute to someone we love can change their life.We might not know how things go change in someone’s life with a simple method tats listening.

sometimes being at home ,we feel worthless .The worst feeling is being dependent on someone for a whole life.Yes ofcourse there is lot of benefits being a stay at home.mum and that’s the benefit of being with your kids but that is the biggest problem took,because at one point in life we might feel.lost and loose our self.esteem. What we will do with al.our education and the things we learnt from our parents.

our parents taught us what life is through their example and so we need to do the same with lil improvisation and that’s what we can do to.make things look easier for our kids.

When I feel low I look at my lovely kids and they give me the right amount of power I need .

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Sharing and helping

As my daughters are growing older and wiser day by day, I need to give them or show them rather, lessons of sharing and helping. If  we parents don’t do then, how can we expect our kids to do it. 

I tell the several things , many good things  but rather, I would end up in doing something bad, since we are not perfect. It happens most of the times that, I end up doing right the opposite what I just asked them to do or be. So I am trying to infiltrate in myself ,the qualities I really want in my kids. Though it takes lots of my patience and time , I would rather not regret. 

We need to share the good things rather than the bad things. Something I keep telling my daughter, as she goes to school and when I sent her something she likes, I tell her that you need to share it with her friends as they too do.  The more you share the more your are blessed with more of the same. I keep telling her, this , I don’t how far she knows the  importance , but Am pretty sure  ,she will realise it  one day. 

Secondly , helping is important, but do not pretend to help. Nobody approaches someone , who shows off that you have helped them, rather being humble , helps you get more people to approach you. There is no point in helping someone or giving a hand , and pretend as if you did some favour to them, you make them feel like a burden and you just make them feel as if you just washed your hands off from their task and did something you didn’t want to do.  

You might be of great help then , at the end of the day , but that person will never ever feel like requesting you again , even they feel so grateful to you for the help.  I request my girls , to help me ,in anything I do so that they know what is  the happiness you gain in helping and i ask them to help me only when they are  happy to help rather than , showing me their sad face , while helping me.

Help becomes counted only when you do it wholeheartedly , sharing becomes happiness when you really admire to give your share your happiness . 

time – we need more

The role of a father in kids life is as important as a mom . Though both has a different potential ,and most importantly , people think only moms are important , dad too need to be involved in kids life. 

Its just that , moms can take over both dads role most of the time , because they are capable of multitasking and the stronger mothers don’t need a man to help them in nurturing their kids.  Even though thats the notion carried away in many lives , its important to know that , fathers need to spend time with their kids. 

I do agree that , career or a job or other responsibilities are important too, fathers help to make things easier in life , but monetary benefits never help to be involved or liked in a kids life , Its not abt money but the time we spent with our kids that bring in memories . And memories help us to live, the passion for life comes with memories and happiness. 

The most important thing in our life ,which we do not share with anyone is “Time” and thats one once lost , is lost forever. This technology driven world, make things easier, a click help us get anything we want, but does it help us  bring happiness in life , in our kids, does it take space of a loving memory in their life , NO , it doesn’t. And by the time we realise the importance of the same , its too late to correct.

Money is a source, but never can replace your physical presence in anyones life. Hope in our busy world we find time for our loved ones.  

Create memories , sad or happy , it helps us live. Reviving through our fond and hard memories gives us the lessons of life time and the best lessons and a reason to live . 

Granny coming home

The best of alll comes when their grand mom is coming to visit.She comes with a bag of goodies and full of surprises and that makes them so happy.

Nandu loves to be with her they chit chat draw and play together and now my younger one too joins the game and actually have fun and enjoy a lot.

Kids are happy when visitors cone as they to sees some interesting faces out for few days …as they get bored with mine. They are learning to fun with their cousins and grandparents and uncles and aunts. And that makes it more enjoyable .

I guess that’s how they get to know what families are. The more they enjoy being around …the happier they feel.its ofcourse tiring but still these sleepless and tiring nights and days makes memories and we all live for happy memories and that helps us live.

The week is gona be full of fun and drawing and learning new things from her grand mom who is a good mentor for her. Really am thankful for having such a wonderful family.

For moms whose kids don’t speak much

I was just browsing through a post in fb ,in a moms group regarding kids who don’t speak much. I think we seriously need not expect too much from kids, let them grow as they are. I know there are many kids who don’t talk . ..or talk a lot..or actually with some problem, but sometimes… many people judge kids , wrongly. I have being told many times.. and blamed for my daughter not talking, yea ofcourse,there are mistakes from my part, wherein I have not focused much on why she was not talking. 

I have noticed that trait in my daughter, but am not unhappy, its just when people pin point it to me , i get angry and irritated, as a normal parent, I hate when somebody points out a fault in my parenting. I may not be perfect, I might get angry on things, i might shout , but whatever others tell me, i take the good and do my very best. 

I guess all other moms like me, would try to ignore, what others say about our own kids, how can they know our kids perfectly well and better than us. Many parents have this trait to put blame on other parents, thinking that they are the best themselves., even i do it sometimes.. and later feel bad .Sometimes I turn myself into some gran guru , but yes , i give advice only out of my experience. ( bad experiences teach us a lot) .

Sometimes its best not to stress our child for not being something, if everyone can be the same and equal types, then we all will get bored with our life. SO let them be different. I guess instead of us, other relatives in our family do the stressing part a lot and make us mad too.  

Keep it cool and simple.. let them enjoy their childhood.. even am trying to ignore comments too ,,god help me not to get driven by outsider comments on my lovely kids.

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