Patience pays

 

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She waits all along for her dad to reach home ,and immediately he is in , she asks him, “where is chocolate ?” ,her dad as usual surprised looks at me , throwing a question at me through his looks ” why is she asking me , aren’t there chocolates here ? ” . And I smile at him , handing him a chocolate from the cupboard and give him a hint t give her ,as if he bought it.

I appreciate her patience to wait for it, even it is a simple chocolate , i know it means to her . Its sometimes good to develop such characteristics in them. But honestly its not just my effort as a parent even her teacher helped a lot. 

It was difficult earlier to make her wait patiently for anything, she used to cry , shout , and try all her best tantrums on us , to get things done ,and parents like me, fall for all those tantrums, there is no escape.I didn’t know that requesting her to wait , will work out , but one fine day , to my surprise, she did behave as I  asked her to. 

Even though I know that shouting at kids , or being strict doesn’t gain us any love and respect , my immature motherhood ,does it some times and I regret doing so . Nowadays am in control not to do such immature acts and show her what exactly maturity is through my love and respect and lots of patience.

Patience pays well , and it always pays the best. 

 

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I hate Goodbyes

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I am not so good at goodbyes.

Some partings …are helpful. ;)…and easy to say ..because its just getting rid of people…but some good byes are painful…because we don’t want to part with our loved ones.

My lovely lil daughter , is realizing the parting dilemmas , she is in a stage now to realize what exactly  ‘good byes’ mean. I have noticed  that , whenever she is back from her school,, and bids good byes to her friends , she hated it so much. She never wanted to be away from them, but later on things changed, she realized that its not a leave taking , but a small bye for a short time and she will be meeting them again. 

Later she started to take such things lightly and enjoyed waving her hands to her friends to say good bye and meet them again later. Whenever her dad leaves for office , earlier she enjoyed to wave him bye-bye , but now , she knows that those bye-byes…. are meant for a little longer time for him to come back, ,and she will not get him to play with ,and now she likes to wait for her dad to be back home , she keeps checking the footsteps and keep asking me “who is coming” and waits for me to tell her that its her dad.

The same magic applied, ‘the wait for something ‘, when her grandparents left, we told her ,, in order for her to chat with them again, they have to go and so she consoled herself . 

Its so appreciative to see kids admire people in their life and value them.

 

 

Bonding with her grandparents

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My lil one , enjoyed her time with her grandparents , and I enjoyed looking at it and recollecting my golden days as a kid.

I have noticed the changes in my cutie pie , after the arrival of her grandparents , earlier she used to call me for anything she required , now that has a second name added to her list  , her grandma . Now she knows , that the things for which she gets rejection from me , she directs it to her grandma, and immediately she is given whatever she required. 

During our childhood too we all had such experiences too , pampered by our grandparents . I don’t know what exact emotions goes in their mind, but for sure tats only love and care. There is nothing that is beyond experience , and they have loads in their life. 

Like how I used to hear stories from my grandma, I saw my lovely lil daughter , sitting and listening to the stories from her grandma. But in the end, I heard her reciting stories to her grandma too , in the same  style with all the actions and drams.They played together, draw together , even she didn’t want to me all the time ( even though it made me jealous).

Grandparents play a role model for the kids . They are like an extra parent for the kid in all the ways , even better than the parents in every way.They give the kids the sense of family and bonding.

Special Mother’s day

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This time Mother’s day was so special for me.

As always I adore my mom as well as my lovely daughter. Every Mother’s day for the past years I have wished my mom only through phone calls and messages or Skype , but this year I was fortunate enough to be with her as well as receive my special Mother’s day wish from my lil one too.

My daughter made a wonderful card for me on Mother’s day with the help of her lovely teachers and wished me with a sweet kiss . I know there is no other blessing than having a wonderful daughter like her in my life as well as my lovely and caring mom.

I remember my old days when I used to be a kid, myself and my brother used to collect money and keep it safe to buy gifts for my mom. Whatever we had given her , even if it is as simple as a paper card made by us , she adored it. Now being a mom , I think about how am in her shoes , giving love and care and raising my lil one.

I can see that now my daughter is enjoying her time with her grandparents and I could get glimpse of what exactly I received when I was so young to remember. 🙂

Being mommy

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I was looking through old photographs of my lovely little daughter after her arrival in our life. 

The moment she was born, I was so excited to see her, I forgot all the pain and tension and the world around me. It was only her , seeing her well lit face , brought sunshine into my life. I touched her hands and legs tenderly ,so soft and smooth. Her eyes all closed as she was sleeping in my arms, I wanted her beside me in my arms forever.

Whenever I hear her sounds, I was excited. When she cries, I sit wondering how to calm her cry because I never knew what to do , and of course my mom came for rescue in such situations. I was learning being a mother, how to do , what to do and when to do.

Its true that whenever a child is born a mother is born too, and mothers are learning in every stage how to be a better mom. All mothers love unconditionally their kids , and I realize how much I love her whenever I look into her eyes , I can see the happiness , the protectiveness , the  love , the care  , the feel  and when I hold her closely to my heart. 

First few weeks were totally a mess in my life, never knew where to start , and what to do, and by following the expert advises from  my mom and grand mom , I could succeed to little bit.

The sleepless nights ,the wetting beds , all those troubles transforms into loving memories , when our kids grow up and it becomes the best stories in life which we lived through. All mothers feel so proud to tell about their kids, how they are are , what they are . For every Mother , their kid will be the naughtiest and the sweetest and cutest. 

Love to all  mothers . Motherhood is a true blessing.

 

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